People comes into your life for a reason. Either for a period or for the rest of your life. Once you understand the reason, you will also understand how you are going to be with and for that person. When someone comes into your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed (not verbally expressed) They are here to provide you with guidance and support and to expand the road that is meant for you since you were born and that you will follow through life. They come to help you physically, emotionally and spiritually. Sometimes it can seem as if they are sent from heaven, and sometimes from hell. There is also the reverse. You enter someone’s life to fill all these functions too!
They are there, because you need them and you are there because they need you. Then, suddenly, that person (unless you do something wrong and at a inconvenient time …) say something or do something that makes your “relationship” end. They can leave you for various reasons. Sometimes they act up and force you to take decisions. What is essential here, is that your needs are met, our desire and destiny fulfilled (or goes its way towards the completion of it) their work is done. The “prayers” and “wishes” you sent has been heard and confirmed, and it is then time to move on, Even if you really do not want too. I think we are pretty sure if a person is meant to be in one’s life so long as you live. Otherwise, let them be, let them go. Some people comes into your life for awhile and leave, and it is because it’s YOUR turn to share, to grow or to “teach” others what you’ve been through. Some comes in to just to give you an experience of peace or just to make you laugh. Maybe they teach or show something you have not experienced before? Usually most of them gives us great joy … so enjoy and believe in it! It is probably true, if only for a period. LIFETIME relationships / situations will give you life-long lesson, you grow together, with each other and through each other. I think your job (and mine …) is to accept and to love the person for whom they are. Even if they don’t give us joy and laughter. Use what you have learned from other relationships, experience and field of your wonderful life.
I want to thank those in my life now, you all play an important role and without you, I had not been, and shaped into the person I am today. And I welcome all the new wonderful, beautiful people in my future life. I look forward to learn from you and that you will learn from me.